What is fisting? And how do you do it right? It's an opinion-dividing sexual preference that can be a source of complete erotic fantasy for some and an utterly terrifying prospect for others - there really is no middle ground.
But what if you were to try it?
If you're new to the fisting game you may be wondering exactly what you need to do to make sure you do it safely. Worry not! Adore & More have the answer to your penetration prayers; taking you through our top 8 first time fisting tips you need to know before you explore the depths of your desires any further...
#1. Not Everyone Can Take A Whole Fist And That's Okay
It's no surprise to say that fisting isn't for everyone. As much as it may drive you wild to indulge that forbidden fantasy, it's an anatomical fact that for many, fisting may never become a reality. However, at Adore & More we endeavour to supply the widest possible range of dildo sizes, shapes, designs and textures to help you take penetration play to your personal limit.
#2. Go Slow
Unless your partner happens to make a triple 'X' rated living out of fisting, they're not going to be able to take any fist-sized penetration that's remotely vigorous or fast.
For the safest possible experience, get into a patient mindset; it may take weeks of stretching and playing before your partner will get physically and mentally confident enough to be able to do it. Get ready, communicate and listen to your partner at all times prior, during and after your stretching or fisting session.
#3. Trim And File Your Fingernails
It's kind of stating the obvious, but broken, sharp, long and unkempt nails will feel horrible and could cause a pretty awful injury when you're trying out fisting for the first time. Always keep your nails smooth, short and as manicured as possible and your partner will thank you.
#4. Use Lube, And Lots Of It.
Get ready to buy the largest amount of lube you've ever bought!
Once you've smothered your hand and your partner's delicate areas, apply more, and apply more again. Fist It Lubricant is half a litre of water-based, dermatologically tested and completely odourless lube, designed especially for fisting. Remember, fisting is messy and takes time - always have a great quality lube on standby so you can apply more whenever you like.
#5. Don't Rush Foreplay
Oral sex helps relax the muscles, so make sure you really spend your time getting your partner as prepared as possible - and don't rush it! The more aroused women get, the wider and wetter she'll become, so use a sex toy, your tongue and fingers to get her ready for that whole fist to go in - one finger at a time - which leads to our next point.
#6. Add One Finger At A Time...
Do NOT try to put the whole fist in first. Put in the maximum amount of fingers your partner can normally handle, adding one finger more at a time. Once you've got four fingers in, position your thumb so your hand looks like a bird beak, making the point where your fingertips meet as narrow and flat as possible, until you're up to your knuckles. Once your knuckles are gently pushed in you can shift your hand smoothly back and fourth to stimulate pleasure.
#7. Try A Toy!
A great way to build confidence and test your own boundaries is by getting intimate with our selection of fist shaped dildos. Choose from different sizes and shapes to find out exactly what you like and get yourself prepped for the real thing...
#8. Go Slow & Gentle When Coming Out
Once your partner has orgasmed, the vagina will be incredibly sensitive, so keep your fist still until her muscles have relaxed and any contractions have stopped, then slowly ease your hand out of the vaginal canal.
