2020 may have been a year to forget, but as we move into the new year and hope that life can soon return to normality, why not create your own bucket list of new things that you’d like to try in order to make the next 12 months count?

Now we don’t mean taking up knitting or learning how to surf! We are thinking more along the lines of exploring your sexuality and living out erotic fantasies that you may have been too shy to try previously. If the year of 2020 has taught us anything, it’s to grab life by the balls and make every moment count, so get out that writing pad and make a list of all the new things you want to experience!

Have sex in every room of the home

Start off with an easy one from the comfort of your own home! If you haven’t already christened each room then 2021 will be the year to do it. The bedrooms will be quite straightforward, but things can get exciting when you reach the bathroom and have a quickie in the shower, or get steamy on the kitchen worktop. Don’t forget the garden if you have one, just be sure that the neighbours aren’t watching from an upstairs window...unless having an audience is also on your sexual bucket list! If you have already had sex in all of your rooms, you could try getting in on in every country.

Have phone sex

Sometimes our inhibitions can get the better of us, but not for 2021! It is time to stop being shy and time to talk dirty to your partner, whether they are away for the weekend or just at work for the day. You don’t even need to warn them in advance, simply call them and start some heavy breathing, detailing what you are doing to yourself right now and what you want them to do to you. The only thing to be sure of before your start is that they haven’t got you on speakerphone!

Try a threesome

If you are comfortable in your relationship, or simply have a couple of friends who are willing to give it a try, then having a threesome is a very big tick off most bucket lists. Be sure that everyone involved is happy with the situation and understand that they can stop at any time if they are not enjoying the experience. Other than that, let the fun begin!  

Buy some new sex toys

If you have been getting a little bored with your existing toys, then 2021 is the perfect time to clear out the old and bring in the new! Try some vibrators that you have never tried before, or perhaps go for some butt plugs and nipple clamps. Whether you are buying them to enjoy by yourself or with a partner, don’t hold back on experiencing new things. Browse our range of vibrators and dildos for some great ideas!

Bring out the handcuffs

Bondage is a very erotic experience to have, but if you’re new to it perhaps try handcuffs to get you into the swing of it. Take it in turns to use them on each other and try different sexual positions whilst wearing them to make things more interesting. Who knows, if you try them out in January, by December you could have graduated to full on S&M! 

Study the Kama Sutra

It’s a book that we have all heard of, but most will never have even picked up a copy, let alone tried everything inside it. Set yourself a goal to work through one chapter for each month of 2021 and by the end, well, you’ll be able to write a book all of your own!