Sometimes change can be a good thing. For example, if you have been having orgasms in the same way for as long as you can remember, you may feel that a little change in direction is required in order to keep things fresh and exciting. 

It might be that recently you have been unable to achieve an orgasm at all with your usual technique, but don’t despair! We have put together some ideas that can help to refresh your quest for the big O, whether you are looking for pleasure on your own or with a partner. 


One of the most popular ways to reach an orgasm, the clitoral area is sensitive to the touch and can be stimulated by directly touching the skin or by touching through the fabric of your clothes. Stroke the area gently to begin with and build the pressure as and when you feel. If you would like to use a sex toy in your pursuit of pleasure, the Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation will focus stimulation on and around the clitoris, easing you effortlessly into the potential for multiple orgasms! 


The elusive G-Spot isn’t so hard to find after all! Simply insert your fingers between the front wall of the cervix and the opening of your vagina and bring them towards you. The feeling can be deeply intense, often leading to more than one orgasm. For a little helping hand and extra pleasure, try the Harmony Pink Wonder Lust G-Spot Vibrator, which is shaped in order to focus on that area and offer you hours of welcome relief! 


Playing with the nipples is a wonderful way to reach orgasm, or to help you on the way before finishing with one of our other ideas. The area around the nipples is extremely sensitive, so gently stroking the skin can set your senses on fire before you’ve even reached the nipple itself! If you have a partner who is joining in the fun, ask them to use their mouth by licking, sucking and even a little nibbling. For something a little more adventurous and intense, add a Linx Kinx Minx Squeeze and Please Nipple Clamp into your search for the ultimate orgasm!


Anal stimulation is not for everyone, but it can be incredibly satisfying if that area is an option for you. The anus shares many nerves and muscles with the clitoris, meaning that reaching orgasm in this area is certainly achievable. A Rocks Off Petite Anal Butt Plug has three vibration speeds that will target the area for the most pleasure, in a soft and ultra smooth silicone material that will be more comfortable to insert.